Question: One of the girls working with me is 14 years younger to me. She recently lost her father and I see a daughter in her. We started exchanging SMS and now she has started calling me ‘Daddy’. Shockingly, my wife is against this relationship. She believes I am getting emotionally involved and she is also convinced that one day I will cross the line. It looks like I will be put in a position to choose between the two. But I love them both, of course, in different ways. Kindly guide me.T T Rangarajan (Voice of Love): Visualise the solar system. Visualise the sun in the middle and all the planets orbiting around the sun. With the same model let us view our life, our roles and our relationship with our roles. You represent the sun and the roles you play represent the planets. The time you invest in a relationship, coupled with the emotional bondage you have for that relationship defines the status of the relationship. Higher the investment of time and emotions on a relationship, the closer they become to you… they represent the planets closer to the sun in this relationship model. They become your
